Thanksgiving Day

A Feast of History, Gratitude, and Elastic Waistbands

Thanksgiving is a holiday that combines heartfelt gratitude with the unapologetic consumption of mountains of food. Celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November in the United States, it’s a day to reflect on blessings, enjoy time with loved ones, and enter a mutually destructive relationship with pie. But how did this cherished holiday come to be? Let’s dig in—just like you’ll be digging into the stuffing.

The First Thanksgiving - Fact or Festive Fiction?

The story of the first Thanksgiving is the stuff of American legend. Picture it: the year is 1621. The Pilgrims, having survived a treacherous voyage across the Atlantic aboard the Mayflower and a brutal first winter in the New World, are finally enjoying the fruits of their hard labor—literally.

The Pilgrims, led by Governor William Bradford, decided to hold a feast to celebrate their first successful harvest in Plymouth, Massachusetts. But they didn’t do it alone. Their Native American neighbors, the Wampanoag tribe, played a crucial role. Without the help of Squanto, a member of the Patuxet tribe, who taught the Pilgrims essential survival skills like planting corn and fishing, the colony might not have survived.

The Wampanoag, led by Chief Massasoit, joined the Pilgrims for a three-day feast. While turkey wasn’t necessarily the star of the menu (historians believe venison, duck, and seafood were more likely), the gathering marked a rare moment of cooperation and camaraderie between the two groups.

It’s worth noting, however, that the first Thanksgiving wasn’t an annual tradition. It wasn’t until over 200 years later, in 1863, that President Abraham Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday, inspired in part by the tireless efforts of Sarah Josepha Hale—yes, the same woman who wrote “Mary Had a Little Lamb.”

Thanksgiving Traditions

Modern Thanksgiving traditions are as diverse as the dishes on the table. Here are a few staples of the holiday:

Thanksgiving meals are the culinary equivalent of an Olympic event. Turkey reigns supreme as the centerpiece, often accompanied by stuffing, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, green bean casserole, and enough rolls to sink the Mayflower. Dessert? A pie-palooza of pumpkin, pecan, and apple.

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Since 1924, the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade has been a hallmark of the holiday. Giant balloons of beloved characters float down the streets of New York City, delighting kids and reminding adults that they still don’t understand how helium works.

Thanksgiving and football go together like turkey and gravy. Watching the games is practically mandatory, even if you don’t know a first down from a touchdown. It’s also a convenient excuse to avoid doing the dishes.

The Turkey Pardon

The annual presidential turkey pardon is one of the more peculiar yet endearing Thanksgiving traditions. It’s a lighthearted moment amidst the seriousness of political life, where the leader of the free world spares one lucky turkey (and sometimes an alternate turkey, just in case) from its fate as Thanksgiving dinner. Instead, the bird is sent off to live out its days in relative comfort—often on a farm or sanctuary, where it presumably enjoys a retirement of gobbling and grazing.

This tradition, while widely popular today, has murky origins. Some trace it back to Abraham Lincoln, who reportedly spared a turkey at the behest of his son, Tad. However, the modern turkey pardon as we know it officially began with President George H.W. Bush in 1989. During the Thanksgiving ceremony that year, he quipped that the turkey presented to him was "granted a presidential pardon," and thus a whimsical tradition was born.

Each year, the turkeys chosen for the ceremony are given names, often reflecting current events, puns, or pop culture. Past names have included "Peanut Butter and Jelly," "Drumstick and Wishbone," and, in a nod to music, "Bread and Butter." The turkeys themselves are treated to a life of luxury in the lead-up to the event, staying in plush accommodations and receiving the kind of treatment that most humans can only dream of.

The pardoning ceremony has become a media spectacle, complete with a backdrop of patriotic decor, the president’s jokes about the birds, and a dose of national charm. It’s a moment that reminds us to find humor and lightness, even during busy or challenging times.

While it’s unclear whether the pardoned turkeys fully grasp the gravity of the occasion, their reprieve serves as a quirky symbol of the holiday spirit. After all, if a turkey can get a second chance, maybe there’s hope for all of us to live another day with a little more gratitude—and maybe a little less gravy.

Thanksgiving Myths

While the story of the first Thanksgiving is heartwarming, not everything we associate with the holiday is historically accurate. For example:

• The Pilgrims Wore Buckles on Their Hats: Nope. Buckles were a later fashion trend. The Pilgrims were practical, not Vogue-ready.
• Turkey Was the Main Dish: As mentioned, it was more likely venison, seafood, and seasonal produce.
• It Was a Peaceful Celebration: While the first Thanksgiving was amicable, relations between colonists and Native Americans later deteriorated dramatically, leading to centuries of conflict.

Let’s face it: Thanksgiving is ripe for humor. From debates over the proper way to cook a turkey (deep-fried, baked, smoked?) to the annual battle for the wishbone, the holiday is filled with moments of levity. Then there’s the unavoidable awkwardness of family gatherings, where political debates and unsolicited life advice are as inevitable as the pumpkin pie.

The kitchen itself becomes a battlefield. There’s always one family member who insists the turkey isn’t done and another who’s already sneaking bites of the stuffing. And let’s not forget the unsung hero of the day: the person who falls asleep mid-sentence on the couch, proving that tryptophan is the ultimate equalizer.

The Heart of the Holiday

At its core, Thanksgiving isn’t just about the turkey or the pie (though they’re undeniably important); it’s about gratitude—a moment to pause in the hustle of life and reflect on the good things, big and small. It’s the heartwarming centerpiece of the holiday, overshadowing even the golden-brown turkey.

For many families, this tradition takes a personal turn. Before anyone dives into the mashed potatoes, a ritual unfolds: everyone takes a turn sharing what they’re thankful for. These moments can range from touching tributes to loved ones to a child gleefully proclaiming gratitude for "mac and cheese and my dog." And yes, there's always that one uncle who thanks himself for bringing the wine.

The beauty of Thanksgiving lies in its simplicity. There’s no pressure to exchange gifts or decorate extravagantly—just a table, a feast, and the company of people who matter. It’s a holiday that reminds us to focus on the connections that sustain us, whether they come from family, friends, or the stranger who lets you merge into traffic during the Thanksgiving rush.

In recent years, some families have turned to “gratitude jars,” writing down things they’re thankful for throughout the year and reading them aloud on Thanksgiving. Others find ways to express their thanks outwardly, volunteering at soup kitchens or donating to food banks. These acts of kindness serve as reminders that gratitude and generosity go hand in hand.

Thanksgiving is a uniquely American tradition with universal appeal—a moment of reflection that resonates with anyone, anywhere. It’s not about what’s on the table but who’s around it and the spirit of thankfulness we carry forward into the next day, the next month, and beyond. After all, gratitude, much like gravy, is best when generously shared.

Thanksgiving Around the World

While Thanksgiving is uniquely American, other countries have their own harvest festivals. Canada celebrates Thanksgiving in October, and Germany has Erntedankfest, a similar celebration of gratitude. These traditions remind us that the act of giving thanks transcends borders and cultures.

Thanksgiving is more than just a day to feast—it’s a time to come together, laugh at the chaos, and remember the importance of gratitude. Whether you’re savoring the perfect slice of pie, cheering on your favorite football team, or debating the merits of canned cranberry sauce, Thanksgiving offers a moment to pause and appreciate life’s blessings.

So, as you gather around the table this Thanksgiving, raise a toast to history, humor, and heart. And maybe say an extra thanks to whoever made the stuffing—because we all know that’s the best part.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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