Honoring Those Far From Home
National Day of the Deployed honors service members who leave the comforts of home to answer the call of duty wherever that duty may be. For those of us who’ve spent time deployed, this day brings back memories, not just of serious moments but also of the quirky, character-building ones that only a deployed life could offer.
The Realities of Being Deployed
The life of the deployed isn’t quite like what’s shown in movies, where we look fresh, heroic, and clean-cut even in the thick of it. I can assure you that deployment often includes a lot of dust, some very questionable food choices, and occasional bouts of boredom punctuated by moments that require your complete attention. There's nothing like the sound of a “wake-up call” in the middle of the night, when you have to decide in milliseconds whether to grab your boots or your toothbrush. (Pro tip: go with the boots.)
Days on deployment aren’t governed by the usual “9 to 5.” They blend into each other, ruled by a mix of night patrols, guard shifts, and mandatory meetings that somehow always manage to appear right when you’ve finally found time to catch some sleep. Even trying to keep track of the days can feel like an exercise in futility. Weekends? Those are just a fond memory. Here, it’s all about “mission first” – a phrase we’d grumble about but carry out with dedication anyway.
And let’s talk about the gear. There’s a certain irony in the fact that we train for agility and speed, only to be issued a mountain of equipment. Running, crouching, and even sitting down become feats of strength, like trying to do yoga while wearing a tank. For those wondering, “lightweight” and “tactical” are often two sides of a very heavy coin.
Of course, deployment is about much more than the dust, chaos, and less-than-ideal meals. It’s about being part of a team, knowing that no matter where you are or what you’re facing, you’re never alone. There’s always someone who’s got your back, whether it’s in the form of backup or an extra pack of instant coffee. These bonds are real and often last a lifetime – and so do the stories that go with them.
Keeping a Sense of Humor...Even When Things Get Weird
One of the best tools you can have while deployed (aside from those trusty boots) is a sense of humor. After all, a positive outlook helps you make the best of almost any situation, even if you’re on your fifth straight meal of “mystery meat.” Humor becomes a survival skill, helping to lift spirits when the going gets tough.
Take, for instance, the phenomenon of "entertainment improvisation." With limited resources and zero access to anything resembling regular fun, we got creative. Whether it was rigging up a makeshift “bowling alley” with water bottles and a rock or hosting contests to see who could go the longest without changing socks (not a recommended health practice, but still funny), humor kept us going. I’ve seen entire games of bingo emerge based on what people found in their MREs – because who knew “chunky chicken soup” could become a prize-winning square?
And then there was the unpredictable wildlife. You’d think you were mentally prepared for everything, but that’s until a giant bug starts treating your uniform as prime real estate or a rogue lizard decides your bunk is its new home. Cue everyone’s inner comedian springing to life with new nicknames and tales of “wild beast encounters” that somehow grew more epic each time they were retold.
So, yes, things got weird – sometimes hilariously so – but that humor is what pulled us through.
The Serious Side
But make no mistake, while humor plays a role, the sacrifices are real. Every person who is deployed leaves behind loved ones – spouses, children, friends, and even the family dog – all waiting and hoping for their safe return. Birthdays are missed, holidays go uncelebrated, and entire seasons come and go while we’re away. And no amount of email or video chat can truly replace the feeling of being home.
Deployment means stepping away from everything familiar to go somewhere where the stakes are high and the comforts few. You’re not just giving up conveniences; you’re shouldering the responsibility of representing your country, often in places where tensions are high and situations unpredictable. You watch as moments unfold on the news, moments that most can walk away from once they change the channel, but for the deployed, these moments define the mission.
For many of us, the seriousness of deployment also means a constant state of readiness – mentally, physically, and emotionally. It’s about making tough calls, adapting quickly, and sometimes pushing through when every fiber of your being is telling you to rest. Each day, you’re part of something bigger, knowing that your presence matters, that the sacrifices are not just your own but shared by countless others who wear the same uniform.
The true meaning of National Day of the Deployed lies in recognizing that this commitment is a heavy one, taken on with honor and duty, but never taken lightly.
Remembering the Unsung Heroes
Behind every deployed service member are the unsung heroes – the families back home who are holding down the fort, dealing with everything from leaky faucets to car breakdowns, sometimes all in the same week. They’re the ones who keep the home fires burning, providing the strength and support that make it possible for us to focus on our mission.
So, on this National Day of the Deployed, we salute the men and women who answer the call, sometimes from halfway around the world, with grit, dedication, and yes – an unbreakable sense of humor. And let’s not forget to raise a cup (or a canteen) to the family members who keep things together at home.
In the end, deployment changes you. It opens your eyes to the resilience of people and the value of every moment. It teaches you that even in the toughest situations, laughter is never out of place, and camaraderie is everything. So, let’s take this day to honor and remember those who serve, past and present, and to appreciate all the little things that make life on deployment just a bit more bearable.
To my fellow veterans and those currently deployed: I see you, I respect you, and I’m with you in spirit. And to everyone else: next time you see a veteran, feel free to thank them – but maybe also ask if they’ve got a good deployment story. Trust me, we have plenty.
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